My First Public Flogging Experience Was An Unexpected Surprise
I’m a Pro-Domme, but in my personal life, I’m definitely a switch--it's storytime.
Although I’ve had the opportunity to visit a sex dungeon a couple of times in the past, both times I was doing so as a Domme. I’ve always wanted to go back as a submissive but never had the opportunity to do so with anyone I trusted.
One of the things I wanted to experience was a public spanking, preferably at the hands of a Femme Domme.
I did get to do this briefly at a local swingers club when they had vendors there. Not a lady, sadly but one of them was selling handmade leather floggers. They were beautiful and came in all kinds of designs, colors, and lengths.
As I was perusing their wares, I jokingly asked, “Do you allow people to test your product before purchasing?”
The male half of the couple who owned the shop replied, “Only if you let me do the flogging!”
Well that was a turn on for sure, so I stood by the hot tubs and held on to one of the columns. I’d never been spanked with a flogger but I knew the feeling wasn’t as sharp as a whip and that it would be different than a paddle.
I’ll admit, I was a little nervous but also very excited.
The gentleman told me he would start out easy and ask throughout if I wanted to increase the level of impact, every 5 swats. Needless to say, we drew a crowd and by the time he got to the 20th swat, I had to ask him to stop.
Not because it hurt, but because I was beginning to leave a puddle where I was standing and my husband hadn’t yet agreed to purchase the flogger!
I didn’t think it was polite to potentially soak an item with my bodily fluids if I wasn’t going to buy it. I didn’t need to worry. Apparently the fact it made me squirt and that I allowed him to flog me in front of what turned into a pretty large crowd made the man decide to gift me the flogger.
It’s pretty clear I enjoy being spanked, especially publically.
I have indulged in quite a bit of spanking play in various ways since then, using a leather paddle, hands, a crop, flogger, hair brush, and more. I’ve figured out I prefer less sharp impact (so I’m not a fan of whips but a crop used properly is okay for short bursts just not for a long time) and I love leather and silicone implements.
But I’ve also found most people I’ve engaged with stop short of where I want to be in order to get me in the zone or subspace.
A couple of years ago, my husband asked me to fantasize about what it would be like if I could have a BDSM themed evening involving us and the couple I’m dating.
In my fantasy, I decided it would be intriguing to imagine the four of us together with me in a submissive role. I recalled my girlfriend’s story of my boyfriend (her husband) having her balance herself on a stool on all fours so that played into it a bit.
I imagined being told to bend over the arm of a couch, exposing my ass and pussy, because I do enjoy my lips catching some swats as well. Someone instructed that I keep my head down unless told otherwise. A blindfold was placed across my eyes. The point being, I wouldn’t know who was spanking me, only that it would be happening. I could feel someone sitting on the couch by my head and felt it gently lifted, and placed in a lap.
It wasn’t Damian’s scent so I assumed it must be Daniel, my boyfriend. I kept my head turned but knew I would use my tongue on his cock soon. Then I felt soft hands rubbing my ass, both cheeks, then nails lightly scratching down them.
Hmm, Heidi, my girlfriend. Swat. Stinging rang through both cheeks deliciously and I moaned deep in my throat, darting my tongue out to lick at Daniel. I could feel his cock twitch at my attention and knew I wouldn’t be the only one enjoying myself.
Heidi began to slowly smack my ass rhythmically and I kept time with my tongue. Daniel moved himself and my head so I could take his entirety in my mouth. Heidi stopped and my ass got a break for a moment. Her hands were replaced with a leather paddle, picking up the same pace as her hands. I had no idea who was wielding it. But at this point, I was losing myself in the sensations of being spanked and having a nice cock going in and out of my throat.
Daniel removed himself from my mouth, chuckling as I made a whining sound. “Don’t worry, you’ll get more of that later…” The paddling never stopped and actually increased when I lost the cock in my mouth. I arched my back and pushed into the paddle, wanting more.
I barely recall hearing Damian ask, “Do you want it to stop?” “Please, no. More!”
“Then stay where you were instructed to be. You aren’t running things.”
Well fuck. The paddling stopped and was replaced by a pair of hands stroking and scratching where the paddle had left its impact. Fingers dipped in and out of my soaking wet pussy, pressing into my g-spot and encouraging me to squirt even more than I already had. I was making a mess but no one seemed to mind.
“I think someone needs a cock for a moment, what do you think?”
“Yes please!”
I felt someone behind me and could tell by the height and position it wasn’t my husband. Delicious. No sooner had I thought it, there he was, in front of me, gifting me with his cock for my mouth. With Daniel behind me, slowly sliding inside my soaked pussy and my husband in my mouth, and my ass pretty well tanned, I was entering subspace like it was home.
Heidi kneeled next to the couch, stroking my hair and pulling a bit, and whispered into my ear, “You really are a good girl, aren’t you?”
Needless to say, Damian really enjoyed my imagining of our time together and so did I. Is it a scenario I could see happening in real life? Hmmm, yes, most definitely. Daniel isn’t super dominant, but he is dominant enough to play the role I cast him in here, same for Heidi.
A scene such as this isn’t something I would want every night, nor is the one I actually experienced at the swingers club, but they can be a lot of fun every once in a while. Although being flogged in public wasn’t on my list of things I thought would happen when I planned my trip to the club that night, it was on my sexual bucket list (in my mind) so it’s a box I can tick in a very good way.