All The Sexual Firsts I've Written About
How do you define 'first' experiences and do you still think of them?
This is the first photo my husband and I ever took together. Most people probably don’t recall their first photos together, considering our living in a day and age of cell phones with cameras and taking pictures of everything. But I remember, because my husband hates having his picture taken. We had been together a few months already at this point, and it’s the first time I managed to snap a photo without him complaining. Thankfully, we’ve evolved beyond that, somewhat. He realizes how important photos are to me in terms of recording memories, and indulges me a bit more easily than he did six years ago.
As I was scrolling through old photos today, reminiscing, and came across this one, it made me think of all the firsts we get in life. One of the things we enjoy considering in our relationship is something that’s a first for us together. It’s kind of hard considering we’ve both lived life (me a lot longer than him) before we met. But they’ve still happened and I’ve loved marking every one. Clearly, we’ll all have our first kiss (with a particular person and the first ever), first time we have sex, etc. One that came as a surprise to me was the first time we had a threesome with another woman, that was his first time ever engaging in one and it was a first with me. Although I’d had threesomes before, this one was new and exciting because it was with a partner who had never experienced it before. It felt amazing to be able to give him that and have it together.
Throughout our six years together, we’ve talked about every kind of first you can imagine. I always giggle when I think about some of his firsts and where they rate in his memory. He remembers his first kiss in explicit detail, but can’t recall much about his first time having sex. I do remember my first kiss, but it was almost platonic and definitely didn’t give me life-long shivers, but my first time having sex, I doubt I’ll ever forget.
What are some firsts you recall fondly? Feel free to respond to this email and tell me!
Demeter’s Firsts
It’s Okay If Your First Sexual Experience Isn’t Beautiful and Sacred
My First Anonymous Sexy Internet Hook-up
The Amazing First Kisses That Haven’t Happened, Yet
I Misplaced My Husband During My First Orgy
The First Time I Slept With My Boss
The First Time I Gave A Blow Job
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