Does Being Kinky Make You a Sex Fanatic?

Assuming someone’s sexual activity based on their kink level is another form of sex shaming.

When I was a professional dominatrix, there were a limited number of people in my every day life who knew exactly what it was I did for a living. Sex work, in any iteration, is heavily frowned upon in most social circles.

I was lucky that the majority of people I interacted with were also in the sex industry, so the judgment wasn’t as bad as it cou…