How to Give the Most Mind-blowing Oral to a Man
An ultimate guide to oral for my paid subscribers.
The blowjob has been in vogue since the Kama Sutra featured it in the 2nd century. They offer a host of benefits for both people involved. Performing oral sex to increase relationship satisfaction and intimacy is a key factor, as long as you’re doing it because you want to.
You might be giving mediocre blowjobs without knowing it. Or you may be new to blowjobs and prefer to skip all the awkward practice runs. Whatever the reason, you decided blowjobs are the bee's knees, and who can blame you for wanting to leave your man panting for more?
I’ve compiled this ultimate guide to giving him the best blow job of his life from research (mostly personal) and want to share it with you.
Get comfortable
Before you blow anything, make sure you’re both comfortable. It takes the average guy about four minutes to orgasm. But if you’re doing it right, you’ll be gratifying your partner a bit longer than that. Choose a position where you’re not fidgeting every five seconds. If you plan on using your hands, you can rest them on his thighs.
Opt for a bed if you have delicate knees.
What does he want? If he’s into dominance, consider a position that allows him to look down on you (like on your knees). Is he submissive? Position yourself towering over him while he’s lying on the bed tied up. If he’s a switch (or indifferent), pick anything sexy and comfortable.
Consider the angle or curve of his penis. If he’s curved, then lean your body in that direction. It will make your deep throating experience much easier.
Work up to the blowjob
Don’t go into the blow job at sprint speed, aiming to get it over as quickly as possible. You’ll kill the mood, and possibly snap his dick in half. A blowjob should be seductive and exciting.
Foreplay is essential, even for a blow job. Undress him slowly. Kiss his chest, then work down his body. If you have long hair, let it flow over his naked form while you make your way toward the jewels. Lick his inner thighs and sensitives areas before heading to the sweet spot.
Get a taste of his penis. Give the balls a courtesy squeeze, but gently. Hug the shaft with your mouth and go as deep as you can; gauge your limits. Get the saliva flowing and start working your magic.