For the past week over on Medium I’ve been talking about a very special spot, the P-spot. Those who were assigned female at birth have the G-spot (and the A-spot if you’re lucky enough to enjoy that!) and while some of us may hear negative things about enjoying a lot of pleasure, being a female, there isn’t much more shame out there than that a man hears when he admits he enjoys having his prostate stimulated—especially if he’s straight.
Must mean you’re gay, right? Or at least bisexual? Why else would you want something in your behind?
Gee, I don’t know, maybe because it feels good? As humans, we are wired for pleasure. Sex, however it looks for you, isn’t necessarily about procreation, contrary to what puritanical society would have us believe. We can just…enjoy it for the sake of enjoyment, without shame, without attributing labels, just lie back and have a great time.
Are you ready?
How to Share a Tantric Massage With Your Partner—If you have a partner or partners, this guide explains how to share a tantric massage, which also includes prostate massage.
Why Are Straight Men Still Shamed For Enjoying Prostate Pleasure?—A discussion about shame and how to combat it. TL;DR, you don’t need to feel shameful for desiring what you enjoy!
The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Play For Beginners and Experts Alike— If you’d like to get started stimulating your prostate on your own or with your partner’s help, this guide is a great place to start.
How You Can Stimulate the Prostate Without Insertion— Not comfortable with internal stimulation just yet? That’s okay! This guide will help you learn how to stimulate the perineum and potentially get the benefits of prostate stimulation from the outside.
If you’d like to speak further about any of this, schedule a time to chat!
Treat Yourself:
I mentioned some great toy recommendations within a few of the linked pieces, but I also wanted to mention a couple of other things.
Rabbit vibrators are some of the most popular toys on the market, which explains why there are so many to choose from. One of my favorite companies, Fun Factory, has two that I love, so I reviewed them both here:
If You’re Looking For the Best Rabbit Vibrator Compare These
Fun Factory also just launched their first wand and it is fabulous. The world’s first weighted rumble wand, the vibrations stay in the head not the handle. It has a wide range of settings, from gentle to strong, and is 50% quieter and 32% lighter than the leading wand. Right now, when you add it to your cart you’ll receive a free gift.
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xoxo, Demi